Conhecemos o ser humano quanto à sua raça e origem. Negros, amarelos e brancos são prontamente visualizados e reconhecidos. A aparência física é fácil visualizar e perceber características, diferenças e semelhanças. O lado complexo, escuro de se olhar é o aspecto psíquico. Com todos os seus mistérios, funções e disfunções, determinando o comportamento. Nele que estão armazenados conteúdos emocionais de uma vida! Tudo se inicia na gestação. Recebemos desde o útero materno “alimento emocional determinante”, podendo ser saudável ou não. Qualidade do contato que recebemos é fundamental! Um útero quente e cheio de amor ou um útero frio e sem acolhimento, fará toda diferença na distribuição energética do “ser” em formação e na saúde como um todo. Gestação nutrida com muito amor é um ótimo começo! Todas as vivências emocionais, nas mais variadas fases, são registros internos importantes, tendo uma relação com o aparelho psíquico. Podemos recalcar no inconsciente traumas e estresses profundos, como forma de nos proteger da dor. Ficam lá, como inimigo oculto, podendo emergir em situações de carências e fragilidades intensas. Difícil diagnostico, em nós mesmos ou no outro! Por isso nos iludimos tanto com pessoas, fazendo escolhas erradas. “As aparências enganam”! Cada um age e reage de forma própria diante da vida. Estou com uma paciente a quem vou chamar “Fabiana”. Fruto de uma gravidez indesejada. Sua mãe, mulher mal amada, não conseguiu abortar em tempo. Nunca a desejou! Assim que Fabiana nasceu foi entregue para a adoção. Ela não pode sentir das entranhas de sua mãe o acolhimento amoroso a que toda criança tem direito! Adotada com nove meses, por uma família rígida e formal. Cresceu rebelde e agressiva. Fazia o jogo da boa menina, até certo ponto, por conveniência. Muitos problemas emocionais! A adolescência foi um horror! Fugiu várias vezes de casa. Parou de estudar. Não tinha o menor interesse por nada que fosse construtivo. Revoltada, mesmo! Envolveu-se com más companhias. Quase matou Ana Cláudia, sua mãe adotiva, tantos os desgostos. Passada a adolescência, fase hormonal crítica, depois de muitas punições e advertências, voltou finalmente aos estudos. Transformou-se numa moça astuta, charmosa e envolvente. Ainda com comportamento cheio de atitudes negativas, recorrentes e auto destrutivas. Fabiana, desenvolveu fama de mau caráter. Adorava destruir relacionamentos de outras mulheres. Simples prazer. Sentia-se, poderosa e nutrida! Alimentava o seu ego! Aprendeu a seduzir e conquistar com palavras e gestos falsos. Para se relacionar, preferia homens comprometidos. Usava todo o seu charme! Não tinha a menor piedade da mulher de quem furava o olho! Também tem uma coisa, só caiam no seu jogo homens carentes e fragilizados, buscando autoafirmação. (Essa foi a forma que Fabiana desenvolveu para sentir-se importante, valorizada e acolhida). Talvez amada! Não se dava conta da sua falta de ética e de respeito ao próximo. Extremo egoísmo. Nunca pensava na dor do outro. Revanche da vida! Essa moça articulada, aparentemente boazinha, foi pega de surpresa em seu último jogo de sedução. Aconteceu quando resolveu conquistar Pedro, marido de Juliana. Uma conhecida do pedaço. Se deu mal! Foi mexer com a pessoa errada! Jogou charme. Usou todos seus instrumentos de sedução, conhecidos e eficazes. Pedro, homem viril, machão, caiu na armadilha. Quis mostrar sua força de macho. Tentou corresponder às expectativas de Fabiana, testando sua sexualidade. Até esqueceu que era casado e com dois filhos pra sustentar. Fabiana , também, nem um pouco preocupada se iria destruir uma família. Era excitante para ela. Só que Juliana, mulher atenta, desconfiou do comportamento Pedro. Resolveu investigar. Lutar pelo seu casamento. Sabia que estava em crise. Sabia, também, que ela e Pedro se amavam! Luciana, determinada, foi tirar satisfação direta com Fabiana. Sem briga. Muito diálogo. Defendeu o seu casamento com todas as armas que uma mulher inteligente pode usar. Conversou longamente. Falou de sua história. Dos conflitos e angústias. Desnudou-se. Mostrou-se verdadeira. Íntegra! Fabiana ficou perplexa com a honestidade e a exposição emocional de Juliana. Não tinha até então conhecido esse modelo de mulher. Sensível, leal e forte. Algo se mobilizou no interior de Fabiana. Nasceu uma admiração inesperada pela atitude íntegra e transparente de Juliana. Viu-se pequena diante daquela mulher! Sensações novas, ambivalentes, começaram a incomodar. ( Fabiana, veio buscar terapia há um tempinho). Está num processo de abrir o coração. Na última sessão, tivemos um indício importante de nascimento saudável. Uma semente ligada ao amor genuíno parece que está brotando. Germinando. Processo mágico! A empatia e o respeito estão metendo o nariz em seus sentimentos. Está numa fase de gestar suas emoções. Vamos trabalhar com muito cuidado e sensibilidade para que essa gestação não seja de alto risco! FURAR OLHO É CEGUEIRA NA ALMA!
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