A HISTÓRIA DE ROBERTO! (BUSCA DA IDENTIDADE)

Cada paciente que chega me traz um grande aprendizado! Penso que essa troca faz parte da construção que nos permitimos nesse mundo! Quero focar aqui a importância de nossos afetos, de como recebemos e expressamos esses afetos! Muitas vezes temos dificuldades na capacidade de expressão! Podemos desenvolver bloqueios  na formação de nosso caráter, dependendo da educação que recebemos e de nossa história de vida! Essas defesas podem impedir a manifestação dos conteúdos, em maior ou menor grau. O caso que descreverei é um bom exemplo. Há algum tempo recebi o telefonema de um homem que chamarei de ‘ROBERTO”! Dizia estar desesperado, precisava ser ouvido! Se sentia muito mal e sozinho! Tinha sido encaminhado por uma antiga paciente. Marcamos a entrevista! Quando o recebi, estava visivelmente alterado, nervoso, tentando ser simpático! No decorrer da conversa foi se acalmando e tentando verbalizar o conflito que vivia. Fui entendendo seus dramas e aflições! Em seu relato falou da difícil relação que viveu com seu pai, um homem austero, rígido e centralizador que não sabia respeitar o outro! Isso foi uma constante na relação de ambos. Roberto não se sentia amado e nem respeitado por esse pai. A relação tinha sido insustentável! O pai repetidamente o desqualificava! Exigia que respondesse à sua expectativa e como isso não acontecia não perdia a chance de o humilhar! Roberto se sentia impotente! Toda essa situação vivida desestabilizou intensamente seu emocional. Desesperado não teve outra saída senão romper a relação! “FERIDA  ABERTA”! Longe desse pai,” ROBERTO” ficou ainda mais fragilizado! Sentia-se anulado, sem identidade! Não conseguia trabalhar e nem namorar! Esse pai se tornou um tirano dentro do seu peito! Durante o processo terapêutico precisou se olhar pelo avesso. Teve que reconhecer carências e frustrações que tinham se formado em seu mundo interno. Encarou de frente! Na medida em que foi se sentindo mais fortalecido foi desconstruindo esse pai internalizado. Pode até encontrar alguns aspectos de amor na relação vivida e reconhecer que poderiam fazer parte  da nova construção! Uma nova imagem de pai surgia e concomitantemente um novo ROBERTO! O perdão pediu licença! Finalmente havia uma semente à ser geminada! Depois de algum tempo, já fortalecido, partiu em busca do pai real! Foi acolhido com certa timidez! Nesse novo contato soube, que assim como ele, seu pai tinha também vítima de seu avô! O pai de Roberto também tinha sido vítima de seu avô paterno. Ele inconscientemente, repetia com ele, o modelo vivido. O perdão trouxe transformações maravilhosas! As situações mal resolvidas foram renegociadas no silêncio do coração! Uma nova identidade começou a nascer!

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